Thanks guys, I'll look into those apps to turn on/off my phone and sms at specific times.
Regarding my post, I got Active Sync to run, by tweaking the server name and user name a bit.
Verizon says it WILL NOT pull all the old or sent mail off my hosted exchange like my blackberry would do, and the process seems to take a while, think 1-2 hours to get 2 weeks of mail, so have patience when you start your sync.
Hosted exchange is an abolute data whore for me, 106 MB in 1 days use, so best get your unlimited plan ready unless the exchange slows way down since it has "most of the mail" already. She recommended "touchdown" if I have issues.
I was also worried I didn't see 3g or 4G anywhere on the display screen and VZon says they WONT DISPLAY if you are connected to your WI-Fi Network, which I am.
Since I'm a nerdling hanging around my house today, I can verify this later if I get out and have to change underwear once a week, like before AF.
Just thought I'd fill you in on what I found.
Either I'm on everybodies **** List or my phone is very quiet. The berry was chirping and beeping all the time with emails or texts.
Must have honked everybody off when I had to pepper spray you all, to get the last nexus yesterday!