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I got laid off

Sweet Chaos

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Just to start, I'm not posting this because I'm looking for pity or anything, I just need to vent my frustration and because I've come to realize that this is, like, the coolest forum on the internet with the most awesome people, I thought this would be an appropriate place for it. Mods, feel free to close or move if necessary.

So I was working as a hostess at a restaurant for a while and was having a really hard time there. On top of it not paying the bills, I didn't get along with some of my co-workers and they made my days really hard. So a friend of my mom's came to me asking if I wanted a job with him. He worked for a company selling Verizon Wireless 3rd party. I said sure and we filled out all the paperwork and off I went. This was in the end of October.

I had a week long training in which we learned that the program was a trial. We were competing with another company out west to see who could do better selling in the Staples stores and whoever did better in the trial would be taking over Staples. The other company was multi-carrier. They assured us that the trial was just starting and would be going on for a while yet.

Flash foward to 2 weeks ago. My boss (the one that we are family friends with) came into my store and told us that the company I work for will be moving out of the Staples locations at the end of the month. I didn't get an exact date. A few days later we got the January 31st date and I was given the number of the district manager of the stores that AREN'T in Staples stores so I could get moved to somewhere nearby. He told me that it would be easier for him if I talked to one of his store managers, so I set up an appointment with him.

When I went to see the store manager, I found out that I wasn't getting relocated into a store, that I was INTERVIEWING for the position. He told me that he was really impressed with me and that he had 2 more interviews to do that day and he would call me either way. A few days later I still hadn't heard from him so I called to see what he had to say. He said that interviews got pushed back because one of his guys was sick and that I'd hear from him by the end of that week. That was a week and a half ago. I asked my manager 3 days ago if I should call him and he said no. He said we'd be getting letters from the company saying that they had to give me a position somewhere or offer me a week of severance pay, and that the store manager where I was trying to go would be getting the same letter.

So today I tried calling the store manager again and no one answered at the store. I was planning on calling him back a little later. Then my manager came into my store and handed me my letter from the company. It said that they didn't have any room for me and that, because I wasn't in the company long enough, I wasn't getting any severance pay.

So, I am at work now, and in about 10 minutes I'll be out of a job. I have a couple opportunities lined up, but I will not be able to meet with the people I need to talk to until some time next week.

On one hand, I feel really mad that the manager of the store I was supposed to be going to never called me back. If he had called and said that they didn't have space for me (like he said he would do) I would have had at least a couple days to look around before I was out of a job. On the other hand, I feel so stupid. I should have been looking ANYWAY. I was just so sure I was going to get the job because of how he was acting at my interview that I really wasn't worried.

So now I get to go home and file for unemployment until I can get in somewhere else.

Sorry for the vent, I just needed to get it out.
 
S C thats harsh and yes many of us have gone thru something similar in recent times. I can empathize with you. Get on the UI asap as you have a waiting week. Just be vigilent hopefully things turn up for you :)
 
Sucks.. Sorry to hear. But these kinda situations can actually turn into incredible opportunities, just always keep your head up!
 
I'm really sorry to hear that.

From the way your post is written you seem like a bright young lady, you'll find something else.
Don't let it get you down too much.
 
Yea sorry to hear that. I too got laid off two days before christmas after working at my previous employer for 5 years. But then last week I got hired on a new job starting out making more $ than the last job. So keep your head up, sometimes it works out pretty good. And just keep a big :D
 
Thanks for the replies everyone. I'm trying to keep my head up about it. I kinda just feel like tomorrow is a day off lol. It's a weird feeling. But I've already filed for unemployment and tomorrow will be spent looking for jobs.

Thanks again for being so supportive. You all rock.
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sorry girl...well all been there.


best of luck..

Actually, I don't think I've ever been a tatted up Italian girl living in Jersey, getting let go by a cheap ass phone company with no balls or heart...

Strange, because I've been just about everywhere else!








.... but anyways, ya gotta keep ya chin up!

Hey just looking through your profile I noticed your people are from Sicily, Italy eh? Super sweet, my people are from Naples, Italy. And I just went on a 10 day trip to Italy last year, looks like you went fairly recently as well.

Freakin awesome place to visit! Wish I could live there.
 
Actually, I don't think I've ever been a tatted up Italian girl living in Jersey, getting let go by a cheap ass phone company with no balls or heart...

Strange, because I've been just about everywhere else!

ROFL!!!

Hey just looking through your profile I noticed your people are from Sicily, Italy eh? Super sweet, my people are from Naples, Italy. And I just went on a 10 day trip to Italy last year, looks like you went fairly recently as well.

Freakin awesome place to visit! Wish I could live there.

That's awesome! I think that makes us like, mortal enemies or something. Unfortunately, I'm not from Italy, but my family is so close enough, right? What parts of Italy did you see? My trip was for 3 weeks. It was a few years ago, now.
 
Let me tell you a story of how Carding taught me a valuable lesson.


Five years ago I was laid off at my job at a cell phone store due to cut backs, I was depressed because I needed the money to buy Christmas gifts for my family since the money we had saved for Christmas was put into my hospital bills to cure my eyes and I wanted to do something special to them that Christmas.

So, I sulked and went to the park to just stare into space.

There comes Carding. He's a hobo at the park collecting cans , cardboard and bottles so he can sell them to the recycling center for money. He's old and a sweet man to talk to.He used to live with his son but he was abandoned by him when his son's family moved to London.

Whenever I saw him, we share lunch together and sometimes I brought him food clothes and blankets when I have it. In exchange, we have some fascinating conversation.

Now Carding saw me sulking and asked what is the matter. I told him everything and he suddenly bops me on the head saying.

"Kid, look at me. You see me here everyday and you never see me frown. You know why? Even if all the bad things happen to you, you gotta always be happy because when they take your smile away from you, then you really have nothing."

I always live by those words, so cheer up and smile!

I know you'll find something better eventually.
 
That's awesome! I think that makes us like, mortal enemies or something. Unfortunately, I'm not from Italy, but my family is so close enough, right? What parts of Italy did you see? My trip was for 3 weeks. It was a few years ago, now.[/QUOTE]

Don't sweat it, I was born in Vancouver, Canada... but my people are from Naples!

Our trip started in Venice, then to Verone, then Florence, Assissi, and finally Rome. Rome is in the middle of the country, so unfortunately I didn't get to see southern Italy. I want to go back forsure to see the rest. If they forgot me there, I wouldn't mind much!
 
Let me tell you a story of how Carding taught me a valuable lesson...

You know honestly, for the life of me I don't know how homeless people survive. I mean really, it's scary to even think about. If I lost my home one day and had absolutely nowhere to live... how do they stay alive?
 
Remordere, that's an awesome story. There's nothing better than keeping a positive attitude when things are looking bad. That's what I'm trying to do.

Our trip started in Venice, then to Verone, then Florence, Assissi, and finally Rome. Rome is in the middle of the country, so unfortunately I didn't get to see southern Italy. I want to go back forsure to see the rest. If they forgot me there, I wouldn't mind much!
You have to see Capri. That and Venice were my two favorite cities. I don't know if you saw the pics I posted, but there are some of Capri there.
 
Well, for what it's worth, even though i'm relatively new, i'm in a similar situation myself right now, i still have a job for the time being.. But i'm in a completely different city, away from my entire family and all of my friends. I'm living with my as of two-weeks ago(on my bloody birthday of all things) Ex-Girlfriend. so now i'm in a position, where i have to find another job back in my hometown and find a way back to everything i know. not nearly as dire as yourself, but i definitely empathise, I hope everything works out for you.
 
sorry to hear that...

but when one door closes, another one opens, just gotta keep looking till u find one (sometimes you have to jump out of the window too, lol)...

do let us know when you get one :)
 
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