A guys perspective (well mine anyway). Not being able to cook is okay (I'll cook, I used to cook at House of Blues) as long as you don't mind doing the dishes. Make-up: Minimal is good, unless you are one of the few women who really need it (which I hope you aren't), unless it's a special occasion and even then don't over do it. True example: I just had my Tux cleaned for an event and one of my friends came up and gave me a hug and now I have to get my Tux dry cleaned again (which dry cleaning is really bad for material and should only be done once or twice a year) because there is make-up on it. Dressing boring on a daily basis is okay, it makes us appreciate it even more when you do dress up. And the glasses bit, some of us like it and some of us don't (personally I do, depending on the glasses of course).