Alrighty...used twrp and managed to install jb sourcery 3.1 and gapps. OMG what a mistake. after it installed and rebooted I got many" Sorry, but this that and the other thing isn't responding" Clock,system UI, play store, and several others. The top of the screen showing the clock, battery, notifications was non existent; as were the home, task swticher, back buttons on the bottom. twrp would let me choose 10 things to flash, so I chose the ROM first and the gapps 2nd. It wasn't pretty. Luckily, I had the newest MIUI ROM downloaded sitting in ROM manager so I flashed that and have a working phone again. Just in case you're wondering, I did wipe the davlik and cache.
I may try the JB Sourcery 3.2 later, but my gf is enjoying my frustration with this, so I'll do it when she's not around...lol
Thanks for your input everyone and kudos to Scary Alien for his root tool kit and its ability to unlock the bootloader without wiping everything!