Eeek. Well, first I'm sorry to hear they didn't do everything they could to help you.
Do you mean NBA? NBA is our system is also known as Next Best Action, and usually what flags the account for special promotions such as the early smartphone upgrade.
I think they must of looked on the account and your account wasn't flagged for the early smartphone upgrade. The process is we look at the account, and the NBA will say "hey, this is what you can do for them for an upgrade". It's not a normal upgrade, so that's why we have to do it through that process.
The reason they want you to call customer service, is because if we talk to them, they will just ask for all your information anyways, so it makes it easier. We don't have any extra pull with the customer service, so it doesn't help if we talk to them unfortunatly. We definitly can, it just will yield the same result.
Essentially, your account is not flagged in Verizon's system for the early smartphone upgrade promotion. I know there is a thread going on in this forum about the Droid X/Smartphone early upgrade promotion, and not a lot of reps seem to know much about it. I think that is why it isn't showing on your account as of right now.
I'm not saying Verizon is at fault for this, but until they flag your account for the promotion, we can't do the upgrade for you. In fact, I don't think you will be able to do it through verizon until it's flagged on your account, but I would call and check with them to make sure the 15th goes smoothly for you
I'm sorry you have to put in the extra effort, and we are there to help you, but there is only so much stuff we have power to do. Making account changes like that is not something we can do.
I hope that helps, let me know what the result is!