I'm still trying to figure out where it was ever marketed as the Flagship Device that everyone seems to be calling it in threads I'm reading today. Just because it's the first 4.0, and first "pure" Google phone, I haven't seen anywhere that Verizon has ever claimed it to be a Flagship phone. I've seen independent review sites label it, I've seen people here label it as such too. People are implying that Verizon/Google/Samsung dropped the ball on Verizon's "Flagship" phone, when no one in the three mentioned has ever come out and said "This is IT!".
Back OT, agreed that it does seem frustrating when some things haven't been updated yet. Probably moreso for people in the LTE fringes. But as was mentioned by Yeahha, it's the devs that have to get things right for the phone/ICS, and not the carrier or Sammy to do so. Sure, we're waiting on the 4.0.4 and whatnot for the LTE version. To be honest, that was the one reason I initially wasn't sure on the Nexus, because I saw how long it took the Fascinate to get the 2.2 update. But being assured that as a Google phone, it'd get them quicker, I bit. And sure enough, nothing yet. Probably wouldn't be so bitter-tasting to a lot of people, if it wasn't mentioned that they were working on issues.
I believe personally, that companies in general do a very poor job of customer-relations when it comes to things like this. Information is God. Even if the update isn't ready, at least post updates once in a while to a forum to let us know that "hey, we're still working on it, we're having a couple minor bugs preventing us from releasing it just yet, but we haven't forgotten you!". Seriously, that would appease a LOT of anxious people. And not just in this market, but tons of other companies would benefit too. Seriously, how hard is it to post a 5 minute blip somewhere to let us know that you haven't forgotten the customer... /endrant