Rxpert83
Dr. Feelgood
i'm newly registered to the forum, i've browsed it quite a bit but decided to post my first question and say hi and thanks to everyone for their effort and knowledge.
so hi and thanks everyone!
ill spare you the long story and get right down to it, all that i want to do with my phone is to tether some wifi to my tablet pc and maybe remove some bloatware. im used to the feel of the stock ui and was curious if i could get a little advice on which would be the best method, and which rom has the most similar feel/stability.
thanks in advance for your time
Welcome to the forums!

You are NOT rooted right now correct? It seems like most people go with the HTCDEV method. If you want to get right into flashing ROMS you don't need to use captain throwbacks method. Once you have the bootloader unlocked and a custom recovery you can start to flash ROMS.
As for what ROM to flash...... Go with MikG 3.11 It has bloatware removed, its highly optimized, has the hacked sprint hotspot that'll work for free. It is also sense-based so it will look close to stock
MikG v3.11 [3/9/2012]