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A tease?

Vinsanity93

Vinsanity93

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Well there is this girl in my school that I think is a tease, I may be exaggerating, but she flirts a lot, even if she has a boyfriend but doesn't cheat (As far as I know...). I fell for it before (Fool me once, shame on you) but that was at a time when I wasn't so good with women (gasp, I know :P). I've known her for a while, since around middle school, in fact I think I was one of her first friends and she used to be one of those quieter girls.

Now she recently broke up with her boyfriend who cheated on her and for the past few days in school shes been flirting with me OD (aka A Lot). This wasn't the type of flirting as she did to me back in the day where she'd poke and touch me, it was a lot more sexual in nature. She would rub her @ss all over my abdomen area :eek: during class and as far as I've noticed, I'm the only one she does it to. This wasn't the first time I had a female's rear end on me lol but it is pretty abnormal to do it everyday, and that isn't an exaggeration

Now I'm not the type of guy that would let her take advantage of me again so how should I go about this? I need to ask a girl to prom soon and I'm torn between this girl (Really outgoing as you can tell) and another one (Really shy girl, I'll maybe post that later :D). I know I'll have a lot of fun with this girl but there's something about the other girl that I really like.
 
Well, really only you can answer that question.

However, if you've been hurt by this girl before, then I would go for the shy girl... Sometimes what you don't know is better than what you do...
 
byteware said:
Well, really only you can answer that question.

However, if you've been hurt by this girl before, then I would go for the shy girl... Sometimes what you don't know is better than what you do...
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She didn't really "hurt" me but I did feel stupid for falling for it.
 
One thing is forsure, there is and always wiil be a chance that one or both of you could get hurt. You just have to accept that and not let it get in your way. It's better to have hit it and quit it, then to never have hit it at all (that is how that saying goes.... right?).

If she's rubbing her ass on you, there is interest on her part. Next time she throws that at you pinch it and say, "that was just a warning! Next time you do that I'm going to grab it with both hands"! And then wink at her. She sounds playful, so be playful right back. And always remember to display confidence, chicks dig that the most.

Don't go overboard into cocky, nobody likes that. But if you give off the impression that you're scared, or don't feel worthy, she'll lose interest. And remember, if she teases a lot, it probably indicates she's interested, but also scared of getting hurt.

As for the shy girl, well we certainly don't have the insight or authority on who you should pick or which would be the best choice for you. That is something only you can decide. Have fun!
 
HA HA I did not just read you say " It's better to have hit it and quit it, then to never have hit it at all"

I guess it's also better to have gotten an STD than not to have gotten one at all ... LOL

Sounds like she's been around and eventhough you might not notice her flirting with other guys. I can almost guarantee you that you're not the only dood who has felt that booty on their abdomen. Don't give her the time of day, she has already played you once. See what the shy girl brings to the table, you never know, you might be surprised.
 
If she's doing it to you, do you think she will stop if you are dating her?

Shy girl. Sometimes they are the best anyway.
 
Vinsanity93 said:
Now she recently broke up with her boyfriend who cheated on her and for the past few days in school shes been flirting with me OD (aka A Lot). This wasn't the type of flirting as she did to me back in the day where she'd poke and touch me, it was a lot more sexual in nature. She would rub her @ss all over my abdomen area :eek: during class and as far as I've noticed, I'm the only one she does it to. This wasn't the first time I had a female's rear end on me lol but it is pretty abnormal to do it everyday, and that isn't an exaggeration
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I <3 trashy girls... NOT. Ugh that is utterly disgusting. Exactly what kind of class are you in where you'd find girls like that? I can't imagine any the girls in my classes during senior year doing something like that.

I'd definitely go with the shy girl.
 
Vihzel said:
I <3 trashy girls... NOT. Ugh that is utterly disgusting. Exactly what kind of class are you in where you'd find girls like that? I can't imagine any the girls in my classes during senior year doing something like that.

I'd definitely go with the shy girl.
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Lmao if you think that's disgusting. That's just the tip of the iceberg in my school...
 
hey.... at least you have a choice... some worry about finding an option.

my initinial response.. is the shy girl.

but since you dedicated over 80% of the post to talking about the "butt" girl.. i am guessing you will take your chances at a 2nd shot.

and hopefully you will not finish that quote you started.. "fool me once....."
 
I have to agree with dan330... I think your hormones are going to lead you to the tease, and not the shy girl. Open sexuality like that is catnip for boys... it's boynip.

That being said, I dated a really reserved quiet girl once in high school, and the things that I discovered were absolutely mind blowing. She was quite sexual, but you couldn't tell that without actually dating her.
 
Guys, even if this is the lounge, try to keep the conversation a bit more on topic ;)

Idk, does the shy chick have feelings for you? For some reason, I'd lean towards the shy chick :) If she opens up to you, both of you might have some potential in the future ;) I know a lot of 'quiet girls' that are great to hang out with! A girl may be shy around guys but that doesn't mean she's 'shy' in general. I know cause I'm like that. I've always had an issue around (good looking) guys >_>;;; If you have some feelings for the tease chick, then that's the girl, lol.
 
Vinsanity93 said:
I know I'll have a lot of fun with this girl but there's something about the other girl that I really like.
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Fun can be bought - people you really like are priceless.

Time to man up and decide what you're going to think and feel with in this life.

Either way, seems like you've made your decision plain. ;)
 
I don't know if I should start a new thread but I have no idea how to converse with shy girls. I've heard her talk maybe 6 times since September, when I do talk to her it's usually a yes or no answer and it feels like I'm interrogating her. Now I was shy back in the day and I know how it feels but I don't want her to think that I'm one of those guys that's just trying to make the quiet girl talk. I do notice a reaction when I make jokes and laugh about things so I guess that's a start.
 
dan330 said:
6 times since September...

I have to ask.. why do you think she likes you???
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LMFAO!! I was just thinking the same exact thing. I'd say you need to do a little more research with her close pals. At this rate, like Bigbadwolf said.. hate f**k the lapdancer.
 
Vinsanity93 said:
I don't know if I should start a new thread but I have no idea how to converse with shy girls. I've heard her talk maybe 6 times since September, when I do talk to her it's usually a yes or no answer and it feels like I'm interrogating her. Now I was shy back in the day and I know how it feels but I don't want her to think that I'm one of those guys that's just trying to make the quiet girl talk. I do notice a reaction when I make jokes and laugh about things so I guess that's a start.
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Trust me - you'll have little control over what any girl thinks of you beyond being a jerk or a nice guy.

If she's quiet, just talk about how you feel - no need to ask questions.

Once a girl decides to give you a piece of her mind, it won't be from questions, and you'll be in no position to stop the flood.

If you ask her out and she says yes, then probably most all of her decisions about you are already made.

And don't sweat the how to talk to a shy girl thing - take it from a old dude - there will be a day in your life when you'd give anything just to have a babe listen and not talk. Take this opportunity as a penny in heaven.

So carpe diem young compadre.
 
dan330 said:
6 times since September...

I have to ask.. why do you think she likes you???
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I never said she liked me, I just said I saw a reaction. And idk if u read the part about her being shy? She's only one of 3 juniors in my class so she doesn't really know anyone.
 
Ok, so now I get the impression that you would rather take the shy girl. Sorry, I thought you wanted the ass rubbin chick but just threw this shy chick into the mix to look less like a guy only thinking with his pecker (which wasn't fooling me btw, because at your age, that was the only brain in my body that was operational).

So the shy girl it is. Well let me tell you a little piece of advice from a former shy guy.... two shy people will NEVER hook up. One of you has to be the aggressor and pursue the other. And since it sounds like she's not going to be the one, you have to step up to the plate.

Know this about shy girls, they are dying for someone to open them up. Even if they act like they don't at first, you have to keep at it. Its like a game of 'Break the Bricks', you knock down one block at a time until you break through. If you have a feeling she likes you, chances are she probably does. So just keep after her. Because if she does like you then she's loving any and all the attention you're giving her.

I think the ass girl was just trying to mark her territory to make the shy chick jealous! ;)
 
some thing easy .. is fun for now.


something worth having .. takes a little work and planing.
and the rewards are higher and last longer.
 
Don't make the same mistakes I did in high school bro. I only dated one girl in my 4 years in HS because I was always so afraid of rejection. I was so scared a girl would tell me no that I wouldn't even ask them out in the 1st place.

Years later I found out so much stuff that I was completely unaware of before. There were so many girls that were just waiting for me to make a move. So many opportunities I missed out on. Some of them I had a pretty good feeling they liked me. But there were a few I was totally shocked to find out about!

You never know until you try. Don't wind up looking back on what could have been like me. Make it happen. Once you get past your fears of hearing 'no' its sooo easy!

Even if a girl does say no, they're still flattered by you asking. It's not as bad as you think (ir at least, how I thought), it's a good thing. Because even if they say no at first, the knowledge that you're interested in them can get them to start thinking of you in a different light.

And after a while they may very well come around. But it all starts by you planting that seed in their thoughts that you're interested. Other wise you get stuck in the 'friend zone'. Which isn't where you want to be.
 
friend zone.. kiss of death!!!

better for her to hate you.. than be stuck there.. if you want her!
 
Outlaw71 said:
Don't make the same mistakes I did in high school bro. I only dated one girl in my 4 years in HS because I was always so afraid of rejection. I was so scared a girl would tell me no that I wouldn't even ask them out in the 1st place.

Years later I found out so much stuff that I was completely unaware of before. There were so many girls that were just waiting for me to make a move. So many opportunities I missed out on. Some of them I had a pretty good feeling they liked me. But there were a few I was totally shocked to find out about!

You never know until you try. Don't wind up looking back on what could have been like me. Make it happen. Once you get past your fears of hearing 'no' its sooo easy!

Even if a girl does say no, they're still flattered by you asking. It's not as bad as you think (ir at least, how I thought), it's a good thing. Because even if they say no at first, the knowledge that you're interested in them can get them to start thinking of you in a different light.

And after a while they may very well come around. But it all starts by you planting that seed in their thoughts that you're interested. Other wise you get stuck in the 'friend zone'. Which isn't where you want to be.
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Yea..I missed my chance with a great white buffalo too :(
 
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