That is just the stereotype of Apple=locked down, too simple, for your parents and Android=freedom, choice, power users only. It's bull.
1) Both platforms are mired in business deals and the lure of profits preventing the way the OS should be used. Don't buy into the "Don't be evil" marketing bs that Google preaches. This and the whole Droid marketing campaign are just as guilty of promoting a brand image as Apple and their ads and WWDC.
2) Both platforms are businesses. You can say Apple is evil and Google is Neo in the Matrix of mobile technology, but that's not the case. We all know what Apple does, so there's no point in beating that in.
Read this:
Google's Andy Rubin fires back at Aliyun OS, says there's 'no disputing' it's built on Android | The Verge
Google stopped Acer from developing a Aliyun OS phone because it was a "non-compatible build of Android." Um... open source? What's that again? Free to use... as long as you use it the way we want you to use it? Since when does Google step in to prevent companies using Android? Slowly Google is turning the screws on other companies. The bottom line is that it's all business. That's it.
3) With rooting/jailbreaking, the power user/idiot division of iOS/Android is a pointless argument. And lots of Android users are not rooting and toying around with the finer details. I don't do that- all my friends who have an Android phone don't do that either and love their phones. And Android is easy to use- it's the menus and submenus for various options that can get confusing. Really that's it.
The bottom line is, don't buy into the marketing BS and get caught up in this battle between Apple and Google. Don't buy into the fanboy arguments- that's exactly what Google and Apple want you to do- they want you to be locked into their way of doing things without exploring the other options and making your own decision.