No, this is wrong. Completely wrong.
People are hardwired to revolt in disgust when they see homosexual action, that's just the way it is. This is not the case with Racism, as this is taught behaviors. But we are now being taught "tolerance" etc.
The real reason Men come against Gays and not Lesbians is... We don't mind looking at women. Be it 2,3, or 4 women, we don't care. Because it's all women. However looking at Gay men, well, turns men's stomachs. It is very true, and physical reactions aren't something you can argue with. I know from personal experience seeing two men even kiss turns my stomach. But I'm not going to hate them for it, no.., I just put my attention else ware. This is called tolerance, not acceptance. Homosexuality, due to it's anti-natural nature, may never be truly accepted, only tolerated to a point it may be unnoticeable. We are hardwired to attract to the opposite sex, and just because homosexual hardwiring is misfiring, defective, wrong, or just different, doesn't mean it's the right way, and in fact nature would disagree with you, as the meaning of life is procreation of the species, and homosexuality does not provide for this. If we were meant to be homosexual, then we would be hermaphrodites, as a few species on the planet are.
Homophobia is a legit condition, Racism is not.
I was trying to avoid this as much as possible, but it was time for my to be blatantly truthful.
Homosexuality is not normal, is not natural, and something is definitely wrong with that person, be it emotional, biological, abuse, something we don't know about yet, or a combination of all of the above. That's just the way evolution built us.