what is a ruu?
a ruu stands for rom upgrade utility. it is how we can update our phones. it is either flashed thru the bootloader or it can be an exe.file that you run on your computer with your phone hooked up to the pc via usb. it will update your phone's software to the ota the ruu was made for as well as update your firmware(radios)
and as i stated in my first post doyou think it could be trafic like he said and the loss of towers
? and that my phone is on a diff tower than my wifes phone?
yes it is possible that it could be tower issues. it is possible that your wife might be on a different tower depending on what prl and profile she has.
and my i ask how you deturman that it si not a harddware issue and not a software issue as well.?
well by flashing a rom or running the ruu which is software and you still have an issue then it is possible that it is not software but hardware.
and is there any other things it could be or any thing you might be able to think of at all that my explain it?
it is hard to say as there are many factors as to what is going on with your signal so it might be hard to pinpoint it. my suggestion is to flash a rom first and see if that helps first. try just a stock rooted rom first. if you have the same issue then we can try and run a ruu next. lets start there and see.