I see that the wait continues. I'm looking forward to seeing which dummies get spat out of which prams on Monday morning
I hope I'm wrong but I reckon it's going to be at least another month. Why?
Pretend you are Orange...... there is a huge demand for the Desire, it's one of your best sellers and probably 85% maybe 90% of your buyers are just normal phone users, not nerds, geeks or techno warriors. Just normal.
This means 85 - 90% of your paying customer base are interested in things like the shiney screen, the number 5 infront of the word mega pixel, it makes calls and sends texts and you can play a few games. It also looks good and has a few novelties.
In other words, it's flying off of the shelves as it is.
2.1 is plenty adequate for the majority of customers.
Then there are the dedicated few.... the geek, techie, contingent who account for maybe 20% of one of your income streams. Enough to ensure that technology moves on and the latest "stuff" is available, but hardly enough to feel threatened by and certainly not enough to hurry a firmware update out.
Personally, I'd adopt the attitude of, why risk upsetting 85-90% of the customer base because a few are getting arsey and threatening to leave.
I think that when you look at it like that, slating a service provider because they are a nano second late with a free update, kinda makes you look a bit sad, lonely, bored, selfish, billy no mates, get a life, is it really that important, ungreatfull bellend lol

It'll turn up when it does and when it does, the same percentages will complain about it not working perfectly. Take the folk who already have the update.It's ironic, but maybe the reason it is so buggy, is because they wailed and stomped thier feet and as a result, the service provider released it a tad early.
Personally, I hope Orange have looked at the most common reported bugs (From the other service providers that bowed to pressure) and thought "hang on a minute, let's not put it out there just yet, lets spend a few weeks sorting the bits that don't work out"
Just my thoughts, might be wrong, might wind a few folk up, but a thought none the less