It's only the 1%-ers like us in this forum that feel slighted. My wife has had hers since sept 15th, she loves it. And, she doesn't know, realize, or care about DJ05, 2.2, etc.
The point being, 99% of SF owners are satisfied. Once Verizon receives the update, they are obligated to contracts with vendors (bloat-ware) and they have to be prepared for the spike in support calls once it rolls out. That is why they are in no particular hurry. Why rush for the 1%-ers?
And, at this point does it really matter? We are all competent enough to handle the upgrade ourselves once it hits the dev community.
I have enjoyed the experience with rooting, the ADB shell, flashing ROMS/kernels, etc. If Samsung and Verizon were on top of their game, I would have missed out on some truly intriguing and educational experiments.