YIPEE! Got DATA mode working in 3.75.2.
For those who have my issue, here's what I did, listed as instructions.
1) Fresh PNY 8GB Class 10 card;
2) Format as full 8 GB partition in Minitool Partition Wizard (on Win7). Use primary FAT32,
with no drive letter assigned;
3) Boot into fresh install of 3.75.2.
4) Using tool (sdparter) on phone under Settings/CTMod Settings/Partition settings, partition card into two approximately equal partitions: 1st=default (FAT), 2nd=ext4);
5) Reboot (contrary to previous instructions, I did not use CWM to format sd-ext at this or any point);
6) Go into CTMod settings/Kernel settings and put phone into DATA mode;
7) Reboot.
About 3 minutes later, I'm in DATA mode with 3.xxGB showing as available Internal Storage!!!
Was gonna' post a screenshot showing the 3.51 available Internal Storage, but I haven't figured out yet how to upload screenshots to posts in this forum.
8) [optional] Because SD card now has no drive letter assigned in Windows, Windows won't be able to read it when SD card is in the SDHC card reader in the Windows box. My Win7 box threw a WPD code 10 error in device manager because it couldn't read the SD card. To solve this issue, return the card to Windows7 box (after unmount or power down of phone) and assign a drive letter to the FAT32 partition on the card using Windows native diskmgmt.msc . Un-lettered SD partitions will be listed at the top of the diskmgmt.msc window. I returned card to phone after doing this, and it still works fine, but now the card can be read with SD card reader on the Windows box.