something else I noticed...all my programs have been stored in the internal phone storage, not my SD card....I only have 13.57 MB.....could that be the problem? My old phone made it easy to move programs to SD card...but i can't seem to know how to do it on this phone. I have a file explorer too...
OK I know you solved your problem by flashing a different rom and we can figure why, you wiped everything and didnt reinstall apps yet.
I just want to address the free memory and apps to sd card issue real quick. 13.57mb is low. You need more than that, the phone will have trouble running when it is that low, it will need memory to do basic operations and install new apps and such and it just plain running out. Most of your issues likely came from that. What is weird is you said you didnt have that much on your phone...?
Sorry the evo came with a measly 512mb. Luckily we have sd cards. There is a built in way to move apps to the sd card which may alleviate your problems for a while. Its is froyo app2sd. You can basically go into setting/applications/manage applications and from there you can move them to your sd card. Not all can be moved, though you can force them but its not always safe. Anything with an associated widget cant be moved it will cease to function properly and disappear after a reboot. If it cant be moved, the move to sd card option will be blanked (you can force it with something like Tib but I dont suggest it). Apps2sd however while it moves part of the app to the sd card it still retains part of it on the internal storage so it can still run the app. Splits the app in two so it can access it still, part on internal, part on sd card in android secure. If you use apps2sd youll want to back up android secure in amon ra (cw already does this by default). App2sd may give you enough space...
The preferred method is to move the apps with a2sd (dont confuse with apps2sd, its different). This method moves the app completely and entirely to the sd card. It can do this because it utilizes a symlink so the system can still find it. The system will only look in two places for an app, a2sd moved all your apps from those two locations, so it creates a link so that when system looks in system/app it still grabs the app that is on your sd card. This is the method i use and i have most of my space free except the actual size of the rom itself.
The rub with a2sd is that you need to partition your sd card and you likely want a card better than class 2...
Its possible your original set up could have been saved if you had moved everything using apps2sd, may have freed up enough memory to run properly. Flashing a new rom is great, all the bloatware is gone, they are faster, etc etc. Just know in case your memory gets low again and you start having issues you may be better served by just moving what you can to the sd card. The new rom saved the day because it was smaller and had bloat removed which left you more free space. If you put a lot more apps on you will run into it again likely unless you utilize the sd card, thats why its there
